Tuesday, July 21, 2009

To the Bahamas

We are going to the Bahamas for a few days.. just me and my HOH. We are going to concentrate just on being together and regaining some intimacy. We are really going to delve into things! I'll be blogging next week when we get back!

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Back in Business!

So I got a steroid injection last week from my Dr. It took about a week but my sciatic symptoms have finally dissapated. We went to a wedding this weekend and I was able to dance the night away. I think we are finally in the clear! We have discussed how to restart and we both agree that we need to schedule a night and just concentrate on re-entering LDD. We will go over what has happened over the past few weeks, how things have decayed around the house, without the discipline. If anything, we've realized what a positive effect LDD has had in our relationship. Its impact has been immense. I think making it work has become a priority to both of us. A definite transformational discipline is needed. We both need to get back into that mindset. My posts should get more regular as soon as we get back into the swing of things. Thanks everybody for sticking around!

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Waiting it Out..

So, the Dr. thinks that I somehow locked my pelvis out of alignment... of all of the damnest things, seriously?!??!?! I have been walking like I am 87 and not 33. I think when my son (3) broke his foot, I did it. I have been carrying him around on my hip. We were doing light preemptives for awhile but have stopped until I get through this.

The break has really taken its toll on us. We are sliding back into old, bad habits. I will be in need of some sort of transformational, or reintroductory, spanking when we get back into the swing of things. We both miss our LDD lifestyle. He has tried other forms of punishment, but nothing is as effective as an OTK bottom spanking.

The interim has helped us both understand our committment to LDD and that we both want to continue with it. We are going to the Bahamas in a few weeks, just the two of us, and we hope to focus our time there are really establishing the HOH/submissive relationship.

The break from sex has been excruiciating as well. We did it once in the pool in hopes of not putting pressure on my pelvis... it still did. We are all over eachother like teenagers! So maybe it will help with our intimacy.

Anyway, I just wanted to give you all a status check. We are not giving up.. just working our way through it. I am rereading the LDD books- it is a whole new experience reading them after having been practicing. Thank you all for your comments and support. It is SOOOO nice to know that you are out there going through the same experiences!!!